I’m typically a pretty upbeat kind of guy. I’m a very ‘spiritual/religious/metaphysical’ person, which often includes a positive outlook. I’m not New Age spiritual; none of that “Love and Light” bullshit. That kind of lifestyle is a fad and a very pathetic one at that. The personality disorders these people have fill up 1/3rd of the DSM. I know I’m being very judgmental and patronizing toward a group of people who really pretend to do good. Oops. I did it again. [Sorry for the Britney reference, it was entirely coincidental] However, I’m a little justified in making these statements. I have a lot of experience with both the “spiritual fad” type people, as well as the authentic occult students [whatever realm of study with which they identify]. I spent three years working at a metaphysical bookshop and met all kinds of people, and believe me, a real spiritual student is a world apart from the New Agers. I’m going to move on to my topic now, but I have one more thing to say: My distaste for New Agers is a direct result of the bad name they give legitimate spiritual practitioners. People think we’re all whack-a-doos, psychics [which they don’t believe in], hippies of one form or another, absent-minded and just plain ridiculous. In reality, the true occultist [the word occult just means hidden, as in hidden knowledge or wisdom, and has nothing to do with cults] is just like any other person, they don’t worship Satan, they may not believe in any god, they often find god in themselves and nature, but the most important point is that for an occultist, god is a subjective experience for the individual and no one else can know that reality. *On a side note, I have a travelling Bodhisattva statue on my dashboard in my car for safe travel. If one more person gets in my car [or if I catch them doing this anywhere] and says, “Oh hey! I love your Buddha! I’m so into Buddhism,” I will smack the shit out of them – (1) That is not the Buddha. I mean, we are all the Buddha, but that is not the Buddha that inspired the spiritual path we call Buddhism. (2) That is a Bodhisattva, this one is Maitreya. A Bodhisattva is a being who realized his/her Buddha Nature and achieved what we call enlightenment. However, instead of transcending this reality and moving along the wheel of Karma, they chose to stay and help every single entity in the cosmos achieve enlightenment as well. (3) Learn the story of Gautama Buddha, the “real” Buddha. (4) Pick up a copy of Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse – It’s not about the Buddha [though the Buddha makes an appearance], it is a story that is very similar to Gautama’s.
Moving on.
So, I’m typically a contented person. People often mistake that for apathy or a bad attitude because I’m not always smiling and chatting up a storm. But it’s really contentment; it’s not joyful or despondent, it’s just…content, a moderate mood. I just am. I’m experiencing the moment. Something like that. Sure I’m happy and sad sometimes too, but usually, I’m content and I like it. Lately I haven’t been doing so well though. I’ve got 107 days sober from a 10 year opiate habit, 7 – 8 of which was the grungy, hardcore, shooting up heroin multiple times daily, robbing people, stealing whatever, whenever, just to make sure you got your next hit kind of a habit.
The good old days when heroin was prescribed for all sorts of ailments, even for a cough!
But hey, they also advertised cigarettes to treat asthma…
But that’s not at all what heroin is like…
I’ve got scars just like that. I have to wear long sleeves to job interviews, to work, to family gatherings, basically anywhere that I don’t want society to know what I was.
And the cook. Looks benign, but it’s horrible. Your anxiety levels are through the roof. On one hand, you can’t wait to get the dope in your body. But on the other hand, you’re you’re shaking so bad because you’re already starting to detox that you’re terrified you’re going to spill your shot all over the place. Then you’ve just wasted money that you didn’t really have to begin with and probably had to steal from someone somehow anyway.
Ah. Shooting up. One of the most efficient & effective methods of administering a drug. I think smoking might be a close second or maybe first. And honestly, it doesn’t even hurt. That’s one of the most common questions I get, “Does it hurt to have to stick the needle in all the time?” No, you’re using a tiny needle, you barely feel it. Plus, it’s a pretty quick process. But, aside from the physical dependence and organ damage, this is the worst part of it all. The needles you use are meant to be one-use needles, but that is never the case for junkies. We use the same needle over and over and over. And even though we swear we’ll never do it, we share needles also. When your rig breaks or you don’t have it, and you’re dope sick, you really don’t give a fuck. Imagine all the things that puts you at risk for. But sharing aside, there are plenty of other health problems related to using needles like junkies do:
- The risk of contracting blood-borne pathogens such as HIV and hepatitis by the sharing of needles
- The risk of contracting bacterial or fungal endocarditis and possibly venous sclerosis
- Abscesses
Fun fun. I’ve seen these things. They aren’t pretty. My dealer had such bad sores that he couldn’t hit his arm anymore and had to hit his neck. He developed abscesses that were just f*cking disgusting. But getting his next fix was more important than going to the hospital.
And the best part of all…detox. Heroin withdrawal is one of the worst experiences you could ever encounter. Alcohol and Benzodiazepine withdrawal can kill you [stroke], but heroin withdrawal makes you wish you were dead. It’s awful.
So that’s my story for the past decade. But now I’m sober. I’m putting my life back together. I’m being honest for the first time in years. I’m humble. I’m making amends with my wife [well fiance legally, but we’re married in my heart], my parents, the few friends I have that aren’t junkies. I’m really trying to be a better me. And all of that is going well. But I still feel like shit. Becca says I’ve been moody, not myself. She has even accused me of being under the influence of something, not illicit drugs, but something. Apparently I’ve been that “out of it”. I’ve never been clin
ically depressed, but I’ve been in a funk just like anyone else. And I know my brain chemistry is different and is readjusting [which can take 18 months to 3 years]. But something still just isn’t right and I can’t put my finger on what it is.
Well, I guess time will tell. Until then… ↓
[Those are cigarettes by the way]
&
I’m not a Christian by any stretch of the imagination and I don’t believe that a man named Jesus ever existed. The archetype of the Son/Sun or the Christ (the anointed one) is a different story and a powerful one. And so I leave you with this: the Sacred Heart; not the Sacred Brain…